Compassionate support for the moments that matter the most

My work with Holding the Light is rooted in a simple belief: when we face change, illness, and mortality with openness, we create space for more clarity, peace, and joy in everyday life.

This site is an invitation to get to know my work, the heart behind it, and the ways we might walk together — as individuals, care circles, and community.

About Me

I’m Monica Lynn Remis, founder of Holding the Light. As an End-of-Life Doula and Conscious Living Coach, I walk alongside individuals, their loved ones, and caregivers through life’s tender transitions — offering presence, clarity, and compassionate support.

I believe that when we can speak openly about mortality, we create more room for intimacy, connection, and a fuller experience of living.

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Social Impact

This work grows from — and returns to — community.

I am partnering with local families, healthcare providers, and organizations to build compassionate models of care that support both living and dying well.

If you are interested in collaborating, learning more, or sharing perspective, I warmly welcome connection.

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Areas of Service include

  • End-of-Life Doula Support

    Holistic support for individuals and families during advanced illness or at end of life.

  • Advance Care Planning & Values-Based Decision Support

    Assistance planning ahead and making decisions with confidence and autonomy.

  • Community Education, Workshops & Speaking

    For clinics, senior communities, support groups, faith communities, and wellness centers-creating space to talk openly so we can all live more fully.

  • Transformative Coaching for Living Fully

    Coaching that integrates mortality awareness, emotional resilience, and purposeful living.

  • Caregiving Support & In-Home Care Coordination

    Guidance, grounding, and practical support for caregivers